Few things are as powerful as the right words spoken at the right time.
By the same token, words witheld when their season of opportunity is gone, are a heavy burden to live with. Looking back, one relationship expert offers these moving words:
'I remember when I took your new car on the road and wrecked it. I thought you'd be livid and come down hard on me, but you didn't.
I remember when we went to the beach and you didn't want to go because you said it was going to rain. we went to the beach and it rained. I was sure you'd rub it in and say, 'I told you so!' but you didn't.
Then there was the was the time when I spilled blueberry juice down the front of your new white tux. I knew you'd be upset and blame me. But you didn't.
And remember that formal evening? I was mistaken and told you it was casual. You wore blue jeans, and felt like fish out of the water. I was sure sure you would storm out in anger and leave me standing there. But you didn't'
King Solomon said, 'There is... a time to speak'. But it's a limited time, and when it's over it's gone. Don't spend your future regretting and carrying inside you the unspoken words someone needed to hear. 'Pleasant words are a honeycomb, sweet to the soul and healing to the bones'.
Wait no longer, speak!
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