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Choosing a life partner has been a very delicate thing, and must not be taken lightly.
But with my little esperience and with the help of other available resources I am able to gather these few tips and I hope it will be useful to you out there.
Ask these questions and be sincere with yourself and make up your mind in what to do.
* Is he/she a child of God who believes in biblical view on God's principles about marriage?
* Does he/she have a role he/she is playing in a local church?
* Does he/she respect authority, parents, pastors, etc?
* Can he/she allow you to maximize your potentials?
* What is his/her attitude to corrections?
* Do you have a point of reference like that of Eleazar, Abraham's servant?
* Do you respect him/her as a person?
* Do you share the same faith and similar doctrine?
* What comments do people, parents or pastors pass about him/her in the church, family and in the midst of friends?
* Does he/she love God, His work and service more than you? Is he/she kind/caring?
* What is his/her attitude to money?
* Does he/she spend wisely, judiciously and not tight fisted?
* Does he/she have a mentor that he/she respects? What kind of person is the mentor? Does he/she really love you?
* Do you have the same passion for the same issues?
* What is his/her perception, purpose and plan about life?
Use these above questions as a rating scale and check if you both have scores below ten points. Please consinder your score before you decide to marry him/her.
This one is a helpful tip for choosing the best life time partner. Based from the questions I will rate my boyfriend as 8 because as of now he is not that perfect and I'm quiet unsure of my feelings for him. I don't know why but I guess I'm falling out of love for him. I know it's bad but I'm not really sure. I'm really confused!
ReplyDeleteHi African girl, thanks for stopping by, back to your comment, I think you need to talk with your husband, we all know that nobody is perfect, why not let your husband know his shortcomings so that he can make amendment, you can't expect him to change just like that, it will be better for both of you to talk it out, don't keep the words, speak it out with him and back it up with prayer, he will surely change, thanks.
DeleteKudos bro, I hope our naija youht are reading this!
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